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(Source: foreverawezome, via emmaraawr)
that’s usually when they need you the most.
(Source: shawnasaurus)
In relationships, this emotion is pervasive and instantaneous. This feeling tends to devour the mind and people fail to take the time to evaluate it. Jealousy is a feeling that frustrates and disappoints us, it is a feeling that we’d like to rip out of our hearts. Feeling jealous is not conducive for relationship building and effective communication, it is a heart wrenching feeling from what could be a simple matter. Jealousy is not necessarily bad, let it be because your significant other kept pictures with his or her ex, let it be because of the cliché comparison we do when we see someone better looking than we are; we have our own reasons for the emotions of jealousy. You’re just bringing this upon yourself. Well, perhaps, but it’s not like we all have 100% control on the emotions we want to feel.
Frankly, I know that I have been jealous and I am intimately aware of the impact it can have on a relationship. What if he or she falls for someone better than I am? He or she deserves better. What if I get replaced? Can you relate? That uncomfortable tightness in your stomach? The feeling of your heart aching? Why do we put ourselves through it? When we are in the state of jealousy, we are opening a state of instinctual survival mode, we are acting out of scarcity. We want to feel needed, we want to be missed, we want to be loved, we want our loved one to be all ours. In this state, we are irrational and the only thing we can think about is ourselves. What we need to realize is that we are only being selfish and jealousy should only be to an extent. Jealousy makes us fail to consider the feelings and impact of our behavior on other people. We need to swim out of the pool of solitude from jealousy, we need to find the place of abundance. Release your soul, consider and think compassionately towards how your significant other is feeling. We can free ourselves from the negative emotions and thoughts.
Open up your horizons and grow up some courage to talk to your loved one about how you are feeling, more of reassurance could be what you need. If he or she cares about what you have to discuss about, especially your emotions, he or she will definitely care and take the time to listen. If he or she knew how agonized you are feeling because of jealousy, I’m sure that he or she will feel just as sad as you are. Overcome jealousy, that’s what you should do.
I just needed a reminder to myself.
some difficult shit.
